tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post302292596017290183..comments2023-10-07T06:00:15.459-05:00Comments on Secret Server: You Can't Have Your Cake And Eat It Toosnicketmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07487153057136367343noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post-11629396436465648472009-05-11T20:51:00.000-05:002009-05-11T20:51:00.000-05:00Mary, I was there and I thought your coffee hour w...Mary, I was there and I thought your coffee hour was wonderful. I wish I had known you were having such a rough time. It's hard when people focus on some trivial issue and can't see your labor of love, but I'm willing to bet the cake wasn't really anniversary lady's problem--more like the tip of the iceberg. You couldn't have known about the picture and it surely isn't your fault.<br /><br />Sometimes people get wrapped up in the conventions and rituals and forget that the people are the reason we're there.lisaohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11083355664935634496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post-84024686183704565892009-05-09T07:43:00.000-05:002009-05-09T07:43:00.000-05:00IDNKM - Dude...that separate bed story has so much...IDNKM - Dude...that separate bed story has so much going on there, you can't even begin to imagine. Just know that Jen is not the one stuck in the 1950's. :)<br /><br />I think you can also add: "And now back to my story...even though I know it's anti-climatic" and "I have to shave my husband's back".<br /><br />SS - You did nothing wrong. Not only because I know you could possibly be the most thoughtful and considerate person in existence, but you were concerned about the vegan folks feelings on the proximity of bacon. Any one else would have just felt that they needed to deal with whatever dietary issues they have on their own. Don't beat yourself up. You are fabulous!!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10416016546841654835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post-57351442002096309462009-05-05T23:51:00.000-05:002009-05-05T23:51:00.000-05:00Seems to me like she was just using coffee hour as...Seems to me like she was just using coffee hour as a free anniversary party for herself. I would not have shed a tear for her.<br /><br />And Jennifer, this is not the 1950's and you are not on TV. Unless one of you snores really loudly or has tremendous nocturnal gas, then it is weird.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post-18650492700897991862009-05-05T09:42:00.000-05:002009-05-05T09:42:00.000-05:00I am adding "You ruined my cake!" to the list of t...I am adding "You ruined my cake!" to the list of things I say at inappropriate times. (Included are "You catraping thundercunt!" and "Some people think it's weird that ny husband and I sleep in seperate beds."Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05975916794760117696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post-53057309015503518232009-05-04T20:15:00.000-05:002009-05-04T20:15:00.000-05:00First, gluten free desserts at a church, that's my...First, gluten free desserts at a church, that's my kind of church! Second, it was coffee hour time not anniversary party time. If she wanted to control the cake/party she shouldn't have glommed onto the community event or at the very least volunteered to organize it herself.Vanilla Bean Counterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10856774607252712393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2534221498298699129.post-7992263766029048262009-05-04T19:52:00.000-05:002009-05-04T19:52:00.000-05:00Objectively, I wasn't there, but I think she over...Objectively, I wasn't there, but I think she over-reacted a little bit...poor woman..imagine, if a picture of your anniversary cake was THAT big of a deal. Ugh. Hugs to you. May the rest of your week improve.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09256701076656911834noreply@blogger.com